Connections are only made while you're researching, and aren't permanent. It doesn't matter in any way which specific labs are connected (if the game even currently does anything more than effective lab level), since you can't upgrade any labs while research is underway (and conversely, you can't research anything while any lab being built).
The game does list your effective lab level when you go to research, at least as a Commander feature.
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